Learning How to Forgive Yourself
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Get ConnectedDo you feel weighed down by guilt and shame?
Are you feeling weighed down by mistakes you’ve made? Has someone else forgiven you, but you’re still carrying guilt?
Sometimes it’s easier to forgive others than to forgive ourselves, and we let self-hatred and resentment control our lives. But letting go of that guilt is hard. Here are 7 ways to help forgive yourself.
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Why Forgiveness?
Learning to forgive yourself can be one of the most challenging things to do, but it’s crucial for one’s emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. Many people struggle with the weight of their past mistakes, which can often lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and regret. However, it is essential to understand that self-forgiveness is a process that requires time, patience, and self-compassion.
At , we believe that forgiveness of ourselves is possible because of God’s forgiveness. Psalm 103:11-12 says that God forgives us so much that He removes our sins as far as the east is from the west. He wants to forgive us so much that our guilt and shame are removed so far they can never come back. We can learn to forgive ourselves knowing that God forgives us of all things.
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Learning to Forgive Yourself
It isn’t easy, learning self-forgiveness. But these practices can help you learn forgiveness for yourself.
Learn From Your Mistakes
Mistakes can be an opportunity for growth. Instead of dwelling on your mistakes, learn from them, and use them as a stepping stone towards growth and maturity. Ask yourself what you can learn from the experience and how you can prevent similar mistakes in the future.
Focus on the Present
The past cannot be changed, and dwelling on it can lead to feelings of hopelessness and helplessness. When you acknowledge the past but are committed to growing and learning to be better in the present, self-forgiveness is easier.
Seek Support
Forgiving oneself can be a daunting and challenging process, and it is essential to seek support from others. Share your struggles with a trusted friend or family member, seek professional help from a therapist or pastor, or join a support group. Create a supportive network that can help you navigate the process of self-forgiveness.
Challenge negative self-talk
Negative self-talk is the internal dialogue we have with ourselves that is critical, judgmental, and harsh. It can be easy to fall into a pattern of negative self-talk when we are struggling to forgive ourselves, but it only serves to deepen our feelings of shame and self-doubt. Ask yourself if the negative self-talk is true, helpful, necessary, or kind.
Acknowledge Your Mistakes
The first step towards self-forgiveness is acknowledging the mistake you made. Denying or suppressing the wrongdoing will only intensify negative emotions such as guilt, shame, and regret. It is essential to face your mistakes head-on and take responsibility for your actions. Accept that you made a mistake and that it was wrong. By doing so, you create space for self-awareness and self-growth, and can move forward with different actions.
Apologize to Yourself
Apologizing to oneself may seem unusual, but it can be a powerful step towards self-forgiveness. By apologizing, you acknowledge the pain and hurt you caused yourself and others and express remorse for your actions. Be specific about what you are apologizing for and offer yourself sincere apologies. This practice can help you acknowledge the harm you have caused, show empathy to yourself, and pave the way towards healing.
Practice Self-Compassion
Self-compassion involves treating oneself with kindness, understanding, and patience. It is vital to understand that making mistakes is a natural part of the human experience, and everyone does wrong sometimes. Rather than beating yourself up over your mistakes, show yourself compassion, and be gentle with yourself. Speak to yourself as you would to a friend who has made a mistake.
Finding Ultimate Forgiveness
We know what it’s like to feel weighed down by the weight of our mistakes. If your situation feels hopeless, you might feel like the things you have done are unforgivable and that even you are unforgivable.
At , we know that forgiving ourselves is only one piece of the story, and that true freedom can only be found through the forgiveness Jesus offers you. Nothing is beyond forgiveness. God loves you so much that He was willing to die to forgive you. There is nothing you can do that God can not forgive.
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